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Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation are so familiar, it hurts when you laugh.

Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation. Listen, and get ready to make peace! These exchanges are so real they can make you squirm as you relive the last fraught conversation you had with your own mother or daughter. But Tannen doesn’t just point out the pitfalls of the mother-daughter relationship, she also provides guidance for changing the conversations or the way that we feel about the conversations before they degenerate into what Tannen calls a mutually ceborah spiral, a “self-perpetuating cycle of escalating responses that become provocations.

It was Tannen who first showed us that feborah and women speak different languages. Mothers and daughters speak the same language—but still often misunderstand each other, as they struggle to find the right balance between closeness and independence.

Both mothers and daughters want to be seen for who they are, but tend to see the other as falling short of who she should be. Why do daughters complain that their mothers always criticize, while mothers feel hurt that their daughters shut them out? Why do mothers and daughters critique each other on the Big Three—hair, clothes, and weight—while longing for approval and understanding?

And why do they scrutinize each other for reflections of themselves?

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Deborah Tannen answers these and many other questions as she explains why a remark that would be harmless coming from anyone else can cause an explosion when it comes from your mother or your daughter. She examines every aspect of this complex dynamic, from the dark side that can shadow a woman throughout her life, to the new technologies like e-mail and instant messaging that are transforming mother-daughter communication.


Most important, she helps mothers and daughters understand each other, the key tannen improving their relationship. With groundbreaking insights, pitch-perfect dialogues, and deeply moving memories of her own mother, Tannen untangles the knots daughters and mothers can get tied up in.

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Detalles del producto Tapa blanda: Reprint 1 de diciembre de Idioma: My friend recommended it to me. I’ll admit I haven’t quite finished the book but I think it’s wonderful. My friend recommended it to me, as she said it was the most helpful book she and her mother read during family therapy and as a counselor-in-training I ligros intrigued.

However, I tend to be very critical of anything that essentializes gendered behavior so I wasn’t sure I’d like this book as it does do that debrah fair amount. Still, I think it is a wonderful book and it has made me think about my relationship with my mother in new ways.

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I feel like we have a wonderful relationship already but there is always room for improvement and better understanding of each other. It also made me realize how lucky I am to have the relationship I do with my parents. If I hadn’t ordered it on kindle I would give it to my mother debora read next so we could talk about it!

As it is, maybe I’ll tell her about it and read what I think is relevant to her so we can discuss it more. It also for the most part made me feel comforted reading it, devorah I live far from my family, I got to think about my parents and makes me happy. I’m kind of grateful that Deborah Tannen makes it clear up front that her research group was mostly middle-class Americans as I found this book to be a somewhat disappointing and stereotypical series of descriptions of families that seem to have codependence and boundary issues.

There are many descriptions of mother-daughter interactions where they atnnen to be jockeying for position and dominance and control; behaviours that in other works she describes as tendencies of men. Some related books that might be ilbros interest are: I read this book in a couple of days really quickly, as hooked tqnnen if it was a novel. I thought it was spot-on and really helped understand the dynamics between mother and daughter, distance and influence. Let me add I checked out a few books on the subject and while I only read the Kindle free samples of others, or reviews by other customers, I am very happy I bought this one and feel it is what I was looking for.


I realised that some things to deflect bad reactions or bad timing, my mother and I already do email sometimes instead of phone, for instance. And it gave me perspective about arguments and points of views. I really think it will help me further understand my mother and cultivate a positive relationship. What I especially liked: Tanenn for each debodah to define.

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One point that bugged me a little, depiste the 5 stars: Maybe it’s because I belong to the generation who grew up tnanen it, but there was a lot of explaining how email is instantaneous, what an emoticon is, etc. I read libtos great short, self-published Kindle book that could be a companion to this one; it’s called “The Twelve Sacred Traditions of Magnificent Mothers-IN-Law” or “MILs” and it’s a humoristic but oh-so-true set of rules for mothers of all kinds rannen step, in-law or other yet to respect their grown-up children freedom and cultivate a respectful, caring relationship with them.

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